Tame That Baby Rage
According to a study done in Canada researching the roots of physical aggression, children are much more likely to be violent when they lack social skills than by playing video games, watching tv and all the other things that have been blamed.
Richard Tremblay, a professor of pediatrics, psychiatry and psychology at the University of Montreal says that aggressive behavior is natural and usually tapers off as children gain new social skills and ways of dealing with conflict.
Tremblay’s previous results have suggested that children on average reach a peak of violent behavior (biting, scratching, screaming, hitting…) around 18 months of age. The level of aggression begins to taper between the ages of two and five as they begin to learn other, more sophisticated ways of communicating their needs and wants.
Does Your Child’s Diaper Need a Hazmat Team?
Body Burden Testing is the new hot test for all of us humans. You can test your child for all the lovely chemicals and their levels that they have in their bodies.
The technology to test for these flame retardants — known as polybrominated diphenyl ethers (PBDEs) — and other industrial chemicals is less than 10 years old. Environmentalists call it “body burden” testing, an allusion to the chemical “burden,” or legacy of toxins, running through our bloodstream. Scientists refer to this testing as “biomonitoring.”
The youngest child to have it done, 18 months old, had two to three times the level of flame retardants in his body that’s been known to cause thyroid dysfunction in lab rats.
What are we doing to our bodies and our children’s bodies?
Plan Your Shopping to Save Gas
This is the time of year when we’re always remembering one last thing we need to run out to the store and get. A box of semi-sweet chocolate, some ribbon, more stamps…
In the spirit of conserving gas and money, we are trying to cut down on those daily trips. Here are some tips:
-Keep a running shopping list near the door. Check it each time you go out to see if there are any errands you can combine.
-Look through your pantry and cupboards before running out to buy something. How many times have we come home with pasta or beans, only to find that we already had some in the cupboard?
-Shop with a friend when possible or have your friend pick something up for you when she goes out and vice versa.
-Plan out your shopping excursions. Take the most direct, sensible route. We live in a small town, so we try to drive the 20 minutes to the bigger city with major shopping areas only once or twice a week.
-Walk when you can. Park between Safeway and Target and get a little exercise instead of driving one parking lot over. *Remember to park in a well-lit area and to be aware of your surroundings, especially when shopping at night.
Reduce Waste this Holiday Season
According to Use-Less-Stuff, a waste-reduction website, “Americans throw away 25% more trash during the Thanksgiving to New Year’s holiday period than any other time of year. The extra waste amounts to 25 million tons of garbage, or about 1 million extra tons per week.” They go on to list 42 Ways to Trim Your Holiday Wasteline. Some of the helpful hints include
-During the nation’s busiest shopping season, bring your own shopping bags. Paper, plastic and cloth are all good; the latter two can be folded easily into purses and pockets until used.
-Rather than piling up “stuff” under the tree, think about what friends and family really want or need. Try giving gift certificates if you don’t know what someone wants, or simply make a donation in his or her name to a favorite charity.
-Get the kids to make their own tree ornaments out of things you already have around the house, or from materials they might find in the backyard: twigs, bark, flowers and herbs, pine cones, etc.
-Send e-greetings to family, friends and business associates who are on-line.
-Turn down the heat before the guests arrive. You’ll save energy while the extra body heat of your guests will warm up the room.
The US Environmental Protection Agency has another good list of ways to reduce, reuse and recycle this holiday season.
Following the three Rs of Reduce, Reuse and Recycle will not only help our planet, but will also help your budget!
Gifts that Matter
Instead of giving useless knick-knacks to relatives this year, why not make a charitable donation in their name.
There are plenty of worthy causes out there. Charity Navigator is one website devoted to helping you determine what charity is best for your own giving.
Our personal favorite charity is Heifer Project International. HPI has over 800 projects in 50 countries. They offer livestock, education and other resources to families facing hunger throughout the world. With each gift comes the requirement of ‘passing of the gift.’ For example, a family may be given a gift of a pregnant goat along with the education of how to care for the animal. This family, would, in turn, be required to give the next female goat born to another family, creating a positive ripple effect. The goat will provide milk and manure to be used as fertilizer. HPI focuses on sustainable agriculture development education for all gift recipients. There is a donation level for everyone. From a $10 donation toward a ‘share of rabbits’ to a $500 Heifer, you can help make someone’s life better. For each $10 donation you may receive an honor card to give to your relative or friend if the donation is a gift in their name.
There are many worthy charities out there. Find one that works for you. Here are some more ideas: Habitat for Humanity, American Red Cross, Toys for Tots, Cancer Research, Wildlife Conservation.
Or keep your donation local. Donate to your local Zoo, Animal Shelter, Library or School.
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